Saturday, April 11, 2009

Masama bang maging mean kung minsan, kahit for the right reason?



We have this regular volleyball play every night, one time naglalaro na kami tapos dumating ang isang hindi ko alam kung maituturing kong barkada ko or let's just say na kakilala ko, common friend din siya ng mga barkada ko. I'm really being honest saying that I don't really like him because of his attitude, parang walang "urbanidad" basta maangas siya. He played with the opponent, when he served the ball it was out, eh tumalbog ang bola sa tabi ko tapos I supposed to run and get the ball pero dahil galing ako sa gym hindi agad ako nakatakbo (kasi masakit ang paa ko) to pick up the damn ball, but while i'm picking up tha ball sumigaw siya sabi niya "Sherwin, tao ka ba?" then I replied kasi nakakapikon na siya I said "Ako alam ko mukha akong tao, eh ikaw mukha ka bang tao?!" Eh usually maingay siya sa court yon after na masabi ko yon obviously talagang tumahimik siya ganoon din ang mga barkada ko as in walang umiimik lol, then I felt so guilty, kasi after that 1st game umalis na siya kasi mag CR daw siya pero hindi na siya bumalik. Ater the game I told my friends na guilty ako sa mga sinabi ko pero para sa akin hindi siya matatauhan kung walang magsasalita, lalo na noong sinabi ng mga kabarkada ko na naiba daw ang expression ng mukha niya after hearing what I have said.



Kaya ang tanong ko: Masama bang maging mean kung minsan, kahit for the right reason?

18 comments:

Mon said...

if i were the guy, i'd be pissed off. hehe

but of course i wasn't there, so i can't really assess. if i were in that situation, maybe i'd just ignore him. sometimes kasi pag ini ignore mo yung tao mas effective yun pang-inis para sakinlang naman.
yun kasi ginagawa ko, pag may kinaiinisan akong tao ini-ignore ko lang. let's just hope hindi sya ng galit.

well, dalawang posibilidad ang magiging outcome nyan. it's either ma-realize nyang mali sya or maaring magkimkim sya ng galit. at maghigante in the future. hhehehe.. but of course nasa kanya na yan. for me, as much as possible, i'd stay out of trouble. hehe. but of course i'm talking for myself. hehe.. ingat's bro. ;)

Reesie said...

hindi masama pag nasa lugar ka!

got your link from monding! :d

Winkie said...

nope, it's not bad to be mean if you know ur right. people deserve to be treated the way they treat other people. yun case mo, you were offended kaya na rin siguro ganun naging sagot mo. *konsintidora ako!*

just hopped through from mon's page.

welcome to the blogoshpere, sherwin!

jhosel said...

as long as you have the right reasons and intentions, its okay to be mean. pero wag naman maging hobby ang pagiging mean coz its different already.

welcome sa bloggywood! super plug ng page mo si mon ah. god bless!

Inkversified said...

They say I'm mean but i think I'm really not. If its your personality, people just have to get to deal with each others idiosyncrasies.

Ax said...

ah. oks lang yun! hehe.

di mo naman siya friend! hehe. pero honestly, one needs a kick in the ass para matauhan siya na nakakasakit na siya. and may be you are the catalyst para malaman niya na minsan be tactful naman!

hehe.

ayos ah! nabalitaan ko kay Monz tong blog mo!

flamindevil said...

il quote one of my blog entries to answer your question:

Smile. It makes a world of difference. Dance. Who knows when I won’t be able to? Cry. Holding the emotions inside is bad for me. Kiss. It’s the most wonderful thing in this world. Laugh. What’s the point of hiding my happiness?Frown. Why not let them know that I’m unhappy? Apologize. I dun wanna lose friends. Hug. There’s no better feeling than being wrapped up close to someone I love. Live. Because life is everything. Be positive. That This Time I could really Make It Right!

In short,feel free to show 'em some human emotions parekoy!


-napadaan from Monmon's blog

Crisiboy said...

yap tama di naman masama kung nasa lugar ka di ba..nice post bro..hope u could visit my blog too..http://jologsnayuppie.blogspot.com/

sHeL *tRojan,ih8him_16,tUbig* ^^ said...

kuya lagay ka ng chat box mo heheh ^_^ nyways x-links tau :)

Mon said...

bro, update ka na! hehe.. just kidding.. no pressure! wow andami ng commenters ah! ;p

Crisiboy said...

bro add mo ko sa bloglist mo..tnx for visiting my blog..have a nice day

kuri said...

tama lang ginawa mo pare. kulang pa nga yun eh. hehe.

anakngpating said...

may tama si mon pwedeng marealize nyang mali sya o magkimkim nga sya ng galit, pero aus lang ginawa mo dahil kung wala nga nag salita di sya makakahanap ng katapat at ikaw un hehe..:)

yhen1027 said...

being mean sometimes is still not a good idea...

however, if you really get piss-off you cant blame yourself for being mean. sometimes kasi nagiging initial reaction mo nalang yun eh thou as much as possible ayaw mo maging mean.

sa part, maybe just maybe, baka il do d same thing... haha... wer just human...

Mac Callister said...

whew thanks to mon,i got the chance to see this blog(and your cuteness LOL!)

anyway,ok lang yun,kung ilang beses ka na nagtitiis sa kayabangan niya e tama ng malaman niya na nakakainis siya.

sherwin said...

to Mac Callister, lol cuteness daw oh! baka naman nabibigla ka sa mga sinasabi mo hehehe...(seryosohin ba he~he) Anyway, thanks to your comment I really appreciate it! by the way I saw your blog pero parang hindi ko yata kayang i add ka sa blog list ko eh, sorry ha, pang adult kasi yong blog mo, but don't get me wrong don't think that I'm being judgmental...lol!


Thanks!

Mon said...

hala ka sherwin, magtatampo yan si Mac. hahuntingin ka nyan pag di mo sya add sa bloglist mo. haha!!

donster said...

Jijiji good question, masama maging mean pero masarap ..jijijiji jowk nice post..!!

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